I got some light up poi, which are balls on the end of a string, to see how I could do with them. As much as I practiced, I always ended up hitting myself, so lighting them on fire did not seem too appealing. Next, I was gifted a practice staff, and started playing around with it. Joyful memories of throwing around a baton when I was a kid flooded me. This was a lot of fun. Then I was gifted an actual fire staff, so there was no hiding from it. I did it!
I'm really not especially coordinated or talented with the staff, and I think I will try working with fire fans next. I'm imagining a hippie fire dance with a Stevie Nicks vibe. Don't be afraid or think you're too old to follow your dreams and try new things.